Clip description
Le explains to Lindy how she came to be adopted – he was captured by Viet Cong, their village was bombed and her mother was trying to walk to Saigon with all the children and no food. She gave baby Mai to the American soldiers. Le meets the rest of Lindy’s Australian family and he tells her about her Vietnamese uncle and cousins living in Cabramatta. Le explains that he wishes to see his daughter, she is part of his family. The terrified Marg responds – ‘We think of her as our daughter.’
Curator’s notes
These are compelling scenes about relationships between parents and their children. In a way, the adults in Lindy’s life are competing for her – the Bakers are struggling to hold their family together before it shatters apart, while Le is desperately trying to connect with a daughter who knows nothing about him.
The fact that Lindy’s Vietnamese mother gave her away is a very challenging one for children, but it is dealt with in an interesting way – as her mother is now dead in the story, and her father was absent at the time, it is difficult to lay blame. While this is glossed over fairly quickly, it does add significantly to the complexity and depth of the whole story.
The initial overhead shot in the Baker’s lounge-room creates a dramatic tableau, as Le tries to connect with Lindy and her defensive parents. Much is communicated by body language, camera and music. The Bakers don’t come across as well as the quiet dignified Le in this scene. Marj snatches up Le’s photos before Lindy can see them, and bumbling Geoff’s thoughtless comment about being close to the War is countered by Le’s gentle but firm correction ‘It was more closer in our country’. Younger brother Danny’s questions are used to diffuse some of the tension in the scene as he tries to turn some of the attention to himself.
The use of music is again important. As Lindy looks at the photos, a haunting Vietnamese song with background whispers slowly comes in, perhaps evocative of hidden memories. The connecting shot of Le’s face shows that he hopes so.