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Dael finds the pool a comfort during unsuccessful IVF treatment. She and her husband adopt a Korean child. The pool is the centre of their social life.
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Dael finds the pool a comfort during unsuccessful IVF treatment. She and her husband adopt a Korean child. The pool is the centre of their social life.
This clip shows a woman, Dael, at the Prahran swimming pool in Melbourne, as she talks about how she and her husband, Fred, arrived at the decision to adopt their Korean son, Joel. They had difficulty conceiving and had opted for in-vitro fertilisation (IVF) treatment. Dael describes the IVF experience as stressful, especially when the treatment proved unsuccessful, and talks about the pool as a great comfort and place of support. A scene shows Dael and Fred in South Korea, meeting their son for the first time. Dael, Fred and Joel are then seen at the pool. Scenes at the pool and in South Korea are blended with interviews and overlayed by Dael describing the experience in a voice-over.
Dael’s voice-over is heard over footage of Fred and Dael at the pool cafeteria and Dael swimming laps.
Dael At the end of summer, when the pool closed, I used to think, ‘Oh, wouldn’t it be great if I come back pregnant?’ And then it became evident that Fred and I were having problems falling pregnant. We went onto the IVF. The IVF was a very, very stressful time of our lives and that lasted probably about five years. There was one point where you have to ring the clinic and find out if it was a success and I remember ringing and the answer was no and I was really, really upset and feeling that way, that sad, the water is a great comforter and just being able to swim – you swim it out.
We see Dael being interviewed.
Dael Trying to fall pregnant was always in my thoughts but being able to swim and knowing the people here knew what we were going through was a tremendous support as well.
Dael’s voice-over plays over footage of Dael and Fred meeting Joel.
Dael Eventually we decided to adopt and now we’ve got a child from Korea. The first time we saw Joel, he just looked around and smiled at us. It was a very overwhelming feeling because you didn’t know him but, from that smile, he really connected with us and it was wonderful – he was our son from that moment on.
Dael, Fred and Joel are all in the swimming pool. Joel squeals as he tries to swim.
Dael C’mon, Joel, c’mon. Kick, kick!
Dael (voice-over) Then we took him the following week back to Melbourne and he was brought to the pool straightaway.
Joel Look at me, Mum.
Fred Yes.
Dael (voice-over) And now Joel’s part of the furniture – he really is. He will grow up here.
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